Think Right Toward Everyone.

The rule is: Success depends on the support of other people that what type you think about the people?

I saw the people in the Villages, Schools, Colleges,Towns,and in  the Cities people think wrong toward everyone.if they passes through him they comment on him.

The only hurdle between you and what you want to be is the support of others.

Look at it this way:>>>> An executive depends on people to carry out his instructions.

If they don't, the company president will fire the executive,not employees.

A salesman depends on people to buy his product.if they don't,the salesman fails.

Likewise ,a college Dean depends on professor to carry forward his educational programs ; a politician depends on voters to elect him;a writer depends on people to read what he writes.

A chain store magnate got to be a chain store magnate because employees accepted his leadership and consumers accepted his merchandising program.

There were time in history when a person could gain a position of authority through force and hold it with force and/of the threats of force.

In those days man either cooprated with the"leader"or risked literally losing his head.

But today remember ,a person either support you Willingly or he doesn't support you at all.

Now it's time to ask, "Granted, we depend on others in order to achieve the success I want ,but what must I do to get these people to support me and accept my leadership ?"

The answer , wrapped up in one phrase , is think right toward people.

Think right toward people,and they will like and support you.

This tips shows how?

Thousands of times daily a scene like this take palce.

A committee or group is in session. The purpose ----to consider names for a promotion ,a new job ,a club membership,an honor--- someone to be the new company president ,the new supervisor ,the new sales manager.

A name is placed before the group.The chairman asks,"What is your feeling about so- and -so ?"

Comments come forth.For some names there are positive remarks,such as "He's a good fellow.

people there speak highly of him.He has a good technical back- ground too."

Successful people follow plan for liking people.

Do you? People who reach the top don't discuss much their techniques for thinking right toward people.But you would be surprised how many really big people have a clear,define,even written plan for liking people.

Just consider the case of President Lyndon Johnson.

Long before he became president,Johnson ,in the process of developing his amazing power of personal persuasion , developed his own ten -point formula for success.

His rules--- which even a casual observer of the president could see were practiced in everything he did ,are quoted directly:

1-Learn to remember names. Inefficiency at this point may indicate that your interest is not sufficiently outgoing.

2-Be a comfortable person so there is no strain being with you.Be an old -shoe kind of individual.

3-Acquire the quality of relaxed easy-going that things do not ruffle you.

4-Don't be egotistical,Gaurd against the impression that you know it all.

5-Cultivate the quality of being interesting so people will get something of value from their association with you.

6-Study to get the "scratchy" elements out of your personality , even those of which you may be unconscious.

7-Sincerely attempt to heal ,on an honest basis every misunderstanding you have or now have.Drain off your grievances.

8-practice liking people until you learn to do so genuinely.

9- Never miss an opportunity to say a word of congratulation upon anyone's achievement or express sympathy in sorrow or disappointment.

10- Give spiritual strength to people ,and they will give genuine affection to you.

Living these ten simple but tremendously powerful "like people" rules made President Johnson Lyndon easier to vote for,easier to support in Congress.

Living these ten rules made President Johnson easier to lift.

        

                                     By-Sajiwan Bauddh